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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-29 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2005 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2005 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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06. [nf]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/H1X1Z.gif
[linked because uh not sure if this is porn or not; live action]


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09. http://i.imgur.com/pNcu1.jpg
[porn of the drawn variety - Tintin]


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11. [SPOILER WARNING for Hourou Musuko]



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12. [SPOILER WARNING for Prometheus]



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13. [SPOILER WARNING for Homestuck]



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14. [SPOILER WARNING for Avengers]



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15. [SPOILER WARNING for Merlin]



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16. [SPOILER WARNING for Tangled]



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17. [WARNING for ... pretty sure this has something to do with rape]



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18. [WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #286.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
hiyami: (Ur fail)

[personal profile] hiyami 2012-06-30 10:07 am (UTC)(link)
Because usually it's easier to detect that a relationship is abusive when you're not part of it, when, like it's the case with watching the movie, you see *all* of the relationship. And not just the nice front that the abuser will put up when they're outside.
world_eater: (Default)

[personal profile] world_eater 2012-06-30 10:19 am (UTC)(link)
Which doesn't answer my question.
hiyami: (Ur fail)

[personal profile] hiyami 2012-06-30 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
If it's easy to pinpoint an abusive relationship from the outside, the odds are that someone who is unable to see the abusive part in the one portrayed in this movie (hello, locking up someone for life?) is probably in a similar relationship.

Not 100% odds, but more likely than someone having been 'blessed with a non-manipulative, non-abusive mother.'

See the secret a few posts ago by someone who only realized their mother was abusive after reading all the comments about Gothel being so.

(also apologies for my icon, but I only have 2 at the moment and none is appropriate. That reminds me that I have to upload at least one another, a neutral one).
world_eater: (Default)

[personal profile] world_eater 2012-06-30 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Isn't what you're saying the very definition of armchair psychology?
hiyami: (Bunny munch)

[personal profile] hiyami 2012-06-30 05:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Not more than the comment people were replying to, getting all defensive and claiming that OP must having been blessed with a loving mother to say that.

Tbh, reading the secret I was more sorry for OP if they believe that rather than angry at them for not seeing the abuse.
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[personal profile] world_eater 2012-06-30 05:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah but I was not defending that person either, was I?