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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-01 03:19 pm

[ SECRET POST #2007 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2007 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-03 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, a group dynamic does change matters. I thought it was more of a "you and her" friendship/relationship, while still belonging in a group.

Yeah, seems like your way might be the most turmoil-free. If you and your friends, as a group, do decide to either confront her until she shapes up or leave her, do consider it seriously. I get that it would be terrible to just abandon someone when they're alone, but if at some point this person starts creating conflict with her behavior (as it might get worse instead of remaining stable), don't feel that you're letting her down when it's your sanity on the line.

There is the chance that she will simply grow up with time and realize how much she's annoying you all, though.

Have any of you confronted her or had a heart-to-heart to make her aware of her behavior? If this has happened, and she didn't care, makes it very different than if she didn't know at all.