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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2012 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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04.
[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]


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05.
[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]


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06.
[America's next top Model]


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07.
[Common Law]


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08.
[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]


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09.
[the bachelorette]


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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]


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11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]



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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]



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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]



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16. [WARNING for suicide]

[Park Yong Ha]


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17. [WARNING for abuse]



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18. [WARNING for abuse]



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19. [WARNING for rape]



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20. [WARNING for incest]



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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Welp

(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Well in that case I will give you some time honored advice: TELL SOMEONE. You mentioned school, so a teacher, maybe?

I get that I was rude before, but it pisses me off to see people who have the ability to help themselves wasting it asking strangers for platitudes. I'm sorry you have a horrible home life, and what seems to you to be a horrible school life, but the best advice anyone can give doesn't mean shit if you don't put it to use.

Re: Welp

(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
thanks for the advice. school is over for summer vacation. i've been depressed before and i went to the school guidance counselor and social worker, they were nice but they just tried to put a positive spin on everything and idk i got the vibe that i was annoying them/wasting their time. I started crying and the social worker seemed really flustered, like she'd never seen someone cry before.
i didn't really come for advice although i guess that's what it seemed like. I just wanted to put my feelings out there. idk. i'm sorry if this was the wrong way to go about it.

Re: Welp

(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
da

If you have nowhere else to vent / no one to give you feedback, it makes sense that you'd come here.

It sounds to me that the social worker and/or the guidance counselor didn't have much experience, rather than you specifically annoying them.

I started crying and the social worker seemed really flustered, like she'd never seen someone cry before.

She probably hadn't! It's one thing to study/train for counseling, and another one to actually talk face to face with a person who needs the help.

Re: Welp

(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
If the social worker was upset, that was their failing, not yours. Next time you have a chance, go back. Use the word abuse. Tell them to help you, because it it their job. Venting is wonderful, but it doesn't have a tangible result.

Re: Welp

(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
This. You just told us that you are in an abusive family situation at home, and that your parents refuse to let you/help you find help.

If the counselor/social worker don't help you after you telling them that, than they are awful at their job.
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Re: Welp

[personal profile] barnabys_bane 2012-07-07 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
Not to mention that I'm pretty sure that, if OP is American, the social worker or counselor has a legal obligation to report allegations of abuse. It's not even a matter of being good at their job - it's criminal if they don't look into it.