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fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #2012 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]
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05.
[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]
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[America's next top Model]
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[Common Law]
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[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]
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[the bachelorette]
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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]
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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]
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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]
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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]
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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [WARNING for suicide]
[Park Yong Ha]
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17. [WARNING for abuse]
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18. [WARNING for abuse]
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19. [WARNING for rape]
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20. [WARNING for incest]
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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: OT
(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 05:45 am (UTC)(link)I started doing this about two or three years ago, and while I'm still struggling some times, and there are ups and downs, I've noticed that I'm calmer than I used to be years ago, or if I get upset, it doesn't last as long.
It's okay to feel things, like people above said, and it's definitely not a gender specific thing. Men go through terrible emotional roller coasters too, but they're generally not allowed to show it except in very specific ways (macho-like violence, bravado, trash talking, etc.) by society.
Anyway, the trick is to acknowledge those emotions rather than to try to block them or stop them, find out what they're trying to protect you from (because that's what they are usually doing), and find a way to solve what you were not-so-consciously perceiving to be the problem.