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fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-06 05:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #2012 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2012 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Infinity Blade II, Chaos Ring]
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[Kushiel's Legacy, Avengers, Harry Potter, Star Trek]
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[America's next top Model]
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[Common Law]
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[MST3K ("Space Mutiny") and Final Fantasy VI]
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[the bachelorette]
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[Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
11. [SPOILERS for Deus Ex: Human Revolution]
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12. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]
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13. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]
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14. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]
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15. [SPOILERS for Merlin]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [WARNING for suicide]
[Park Yong Ha]
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17. [WARNING for abuse]
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18. [WARNING for abuse]
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19. [WARNING for rape]
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20. [WARNING for incest]
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21. [WARNING for incest possibly (OP's request)]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #287.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: OT
(Anonymous) 2012-07-07 06:17 am (UTC)(link)All I can say is low self confidence is common- you're not the only person who's ever felt doubt or dislike about themselves, and most people who believe they don't deserved to be loved/be happy are usually wrong. Having feelings like this doesn't make you weak or overemotional, and I know they're not easy to overcome. Even if you're not feeling great about yourself, just believe in your boyfriend, and most importantly yourself. I think you probably are awesome anyways, so just hang in there, and try to focus on the positives in your life, and don't let yourself become fixated and overwhelmed by the negatives. Just remember that no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes. You could consider talking to a therapist too, to help sort out your feelings about yourself.
Not comparing yourself to your parents is hard too, but you really don't sound mentally unstable to me.
(Aaand I'm a little bit tipsy rn, so I hope this all is making sense. Anyways, good luck. It sounds like you and your boyfriend really love each other, which is already a good thing in itself!)
Re: OT
This is a big thing for me. He tells me things that I know are coming from somewhere deeply personal and sincere, but I sometimes forget. It works the same as this; 1 million people can tell you you're beautiful, and it just takes one little "you're ugly" to erase all of it. So my thoughts sort of take over what he said. It's silly, because it's my imagination taking over reality. I think I should start looking at it as a habit that I need to break. Also, I need to love myself more for sure. I've done it before, I can do it again. I'll work on it.
Thanks for replying! Tipsy or no, your comment really did help a lot :)