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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-16 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2022 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2022 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-17 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
Sarcasm isn't going to change how someone feels if you just said that to a person who, say, just lost their best friend to suicide.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-07-17 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
See now, when you start tossing out those kindsa hypotheticals, you could go anywhere. I could give someone similar feels talking about Batman's origin story if one of their friends has just been shot.

I could have given someone feels for my comment to the bipolar person in the general before, if they have a family member who suffers from that, or is that person.

We can go on. It's actually very, very easy to do that sort of thing even when you have the best of intentions.

However, there's a line where true insensitivity or outright malice begins. Note that your tossing out an example of where somebody could be hurt. That doesn't necessarily mean they have been. But even if you are correct... I won't be the only thing that reminds somebody of their friend. Hell, I won't be the only thing that reminds them of their friend TODAY. That's how grief works.