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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-18 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
OP

I thought about that too, but the last thing I wanted to do was bother him and abuse the privilege. I like what someone said below us that if he really wanted to be friends he could have sent a text or two as well. After all, he's the one who initiated it in the first place. :/

(Anonymous) 2012-07-18 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
But I'm reading your post right, OP, he initiated but then you took TWO months to respond. I don't want to be unkind because it sucks for you but that's a long time to go for something new.

In other words, if you were interested in him enough to give him your phone number, and two months went by before he responded to your initial PM/text, wouldn't you think that maybe you read things wrong and he wasn't that interested to begin with?

I get that you wanted to be respectful and not take advantage, but he was inviting you to be a bigger part of his life in some way and you...well...kind of took a step back instead of forward.
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[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-07-19 11:25 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, men aren't that subtle. If they give you their number, it's because they want to talk. They're not trying to be coy or mysterious or play it cool - it's literally only because they want to have contact with you. Being all "oh, sorry, I didn't want to disturb you/I didn't know if it was appropriate/I didn't want to abuse the privilege of having your phone number" probably comes off to him more as "I'm not interested/I'm too busy to be friends with you/I'm blowing you off".