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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-17 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2023 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 066 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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kelincihutan: (Default)

Re: friendship troubles...

[personal profile] kelincihutan 2012-07-18 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
OP already knew that their friend avoided this particular subject as she had seen it in the past. Which doesn't mean it's taboo, or can never be talked about, but it does mean that the friend has made it clear she has nothing to add to the discussion. Instead of respecting this decision, OP has decided to try and drag some statement out of her friend, either by maneuvering her, as much as possible via email anyway, into a situation where it would be rude not to respond, or by simply getting in her face and demanding one. And all this having known before she started that her friend doesn't prefer to discuss these things. When you've got someone you know in advance is uncomfortable talking about something, but you deliberately, and a now a few times in a row, according to OP's account, put it before them in such a way as to try and make it very hard, or at least rude, for them not to talk about that subject, that is being pushy by its very nature. Which is, barring some external circumstance that makes the discussion urgent or necessary, rude.