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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-20 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2026 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2026 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Breaking Bad]


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[Victorious]


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[The Road to El Dorado]


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[NU'EST / Minhyun - EXO-K / Kai - B1A4 / CNU]


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[Criminal Minds]


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[Legend of Korra]


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09. http://i.imgur.com/r96OK.png
[linked for porny, illustrated, Joker/Oracle]


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13. [SPOILER WARNING for Pokemon Special/Adventures Ruby/Sapphire arc]



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14. [SPOILER WARNING for Iron Man 3]



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15. [SPOILER WARNING for NCIS]



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16. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con]

[Power Rangers Dino Thunder]


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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]

[touhou project]


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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Tomb Raider]


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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for image is of Katie Holmes getting ?? violently choked maybe]
http://i.imgur.com/ZZ3AQ.png


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(Anonymous) 2012-07-20 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
It's weird that the site says it doesn't allow rape but has a non-con section, but...

For some people, the actual word "rape" is a trigger, and authors use the term "non-con" instead. And while rape is non-con, non-con is not necessarily rape (non-con can also be used to cover things like non-consenual kissing and fondling and any other act that falls short of actually being rape)

And other people use "rape" and "non-con" to distinguish between two different types of stories. Often, "rape" will be used to describe a fic in which the rape is not made "sexy" and it's not supposed to be written to arouse and titillate. "non-con" is often used when the fic makes the rape the kinky part of the story, and something intentionally meant to arouse the audience

(Anonymous) 2012-07-21 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
That's the distinction I'm familiar with, too. Although, as a survivor who has no trouble with rape fic on most days, but is triggered as fuck by non-con unless I'm in a really good headspace, I find it weird that there are archives who allow non-con fic, but not rape fic.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-21 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Yeah, I agree that that's pretty odd...
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[personal profile] thene 2012-07-21 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
It is pretty odd. It's almost like a sensibilty, imo - 'eww don't let unsexy realism intrude on our nice happy fapsite'. :/

(Anonymous) 2012-07-21 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
I am not the OP. Thank you for this breakdown of terms. I write non-con. I consider non-con and rape to be synonymous, but if I tag my fics that way, I'll end up scaring off readers who would like what I do and/or attract readers who will hate me afterwards.

Put a better way: I have no problem with saying that non-con is fucked up, but I don't want to use the word 'rape' if it's going to make people think I'm writing about rape as a concept. Maybe some better tags are necessary.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-21 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
I've heard of people using the term "rape fantasy" when they want to write about the act in a sexual/kink way and don't want to delve into the ramifications or anything like that.
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[personal profile] thene 2012-07-21 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not into this myself but my impression is that people who like what you do are used to it being a hit-and-miss experience. They know where the back button is.
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[personal profile] countess_k 2012-07-21 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, rape brings to mind a horrifying account of actual events where as non-con has a more fantasy-ish connotation (same as dub-con since if we strip the fantasy from it, it's pretty much rape too.) I generally check my brain at the door and turn on the kink receptors when I read non-con/dub-con. But when I see a story labeled as rape I pay attention and try to understand the respect the survivor. It is very unlikely to get me off because of that.