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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-22 03:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #2028 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2028 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 107 secrets from Secret Submission Post #290.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 3 - posted twice ].
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insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-07-23 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Advice that works for the vast majority of people is still good advice. The fact that it's coming hard and blunt in this thread didn't stop it from being good. The possibility that maybe, just maybe this person is one of the few who really can't doesn't change that. They can or they can't. Not saying anything because of a maybe doesn't seem any better, and can in fact end worse.

A bootstrap puller has done something admirable. Saying "you can do it too if I could!" isn't smug, it's FUCKING ENCOURAGEMENT.

"awww, if you can't do it that's okay! Stop being mean people!" sounds fucking patronizing more then anything.
Edited 2012-07-23 17:43 (UTC)
akashasheiress: (Default)

[personal profile] akashasheiress 2012-07-23 06:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Nobody said or even implied ''awww, if you can't do it that's okay!'' And ''you can do it too if I could!'' IS dismissive, sometimes.