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fandomsecrets2012-07-22 03:13 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-07-22 03:13 pm
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(Anonymous) 2012-07-24 03:29 am (UTC)(link)Shaming is never "ultimately the compassionate thing to do". It's just not. It may be ultimately helpful, but that is not the same thing.
And AGAIN, no one is "telling them that what they're doing is fine", they are telling them what they're feeling is valid and may be something they need to seek help for if it's preventing them from being happy, which it obviously is. Do you see the difference between condoning actions and having sympathy/compassion for feelings? Because that may be where we are not getting each other.