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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-25 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2031 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2031 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-26 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
I don't like that trope much either, which might be why I just didn't see their bickering as pairing potential.

I mean, kudos to the couples irl that can vent their frustrations through moderated bickering and discussions without hurting each other, that takes self-control, self-awareness and knowing each other's limits very well, but having seen the dark sides of both extremes, that kind of thing makes me uncomfortable. (Like, bottling everything up because the other person can't take criticism and then have it all explode when they just can't take it anymore because one or both of them don't know how to talk things through and accept fault in themselves in order to make amends and compromise vs couples that use any excuse to belittle the other and let out every single thing they found annoying about the other while aiming to hurt.)

I mean, I can tolerate that trope if it's written well or at least it's not the focus of the story, but I can't say I like it.