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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-27 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2033 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2033 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mortal Kombat]


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[The Young and the Restless]


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[Firefly, Joss Whedon; Sherlock BBC, Steven Moffat]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/Je2qV.png
[not really porny but implied underage sexual stuff; photomanip; snape/hermione]


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13. [SPOILER WARNING for Pokemon Black/White]



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14. [SPOILER WARNING for Kurau: Phantom Memory]



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15. [WARNING for rape]



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16. [WARNING for suicide]



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17. [WARNING for incest]

[Kono Naka ni Hikari, Imouto ga Iru!]


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18. [WARNING for animal death/abuse?]

[Eden Lake]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #290.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] htebazytook 2012-07-28 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
I read a fic that sounds like what you're saying--intended as cute, and it was dub-con at the very least. It was definitely coerced sex, despite the victim giving in. The actual sex didn't disturb me, but the author's obvious lack of awareness that this was not normal really, really did. There was ZERO warning, not even for 'rough sex' or ANYTHING. I've seen some crazy shit in fandom, but this really freaked me out, especially because the author was, apparently, in their early teens.

Good Lord, the comments from the OP about this person ALONE are a psychology minefield.

Honestly I think you should approach her like: I am worried about YOU that you don't understand you are portraying unhealthy relationships.

Maybe if you take it away from how good/bad her actual writing is, it'll make that clearly daunting fear in her head less the focus and she'll be more reasonable and willing to listen?

Really you've got to find some maybe non fic examples of not okay relationships, like movies and things. Anything that will shock her into getting it, because if she approaches relationships like this in real life then it really does make me worried