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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-29 12:11 pm

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F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

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I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 04:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't STAND social justice warriors on LJ and tumblr. They've taken what was a good cause and perverted it so they're now a laughing stock. Sf-drama, I'm looking at you. You used to be a fun read, where we'd mock and snark at people who deserved it. Now you're dedicated to mocking straight white cis people (slightly hyperbolic, I know), and everyone needs to be handled with kid gloves and walked on eggshells around because they're so OMG DELICATE! But then you go and dogpile people, alerting communities about people that are in them who ~might start wank~, even if the person you're referring to apologized ages ago.

Hell, I'm afraid to comment anymore on SJ stuff because I'm a white, straight woman with mental disabilites, so I don't check enough members on their "Oppressed Checklist".

Newsflash - when people make an "SJW" bingo card? Y'all have gone TOO FAR.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't check enough *boxes*. Dammit.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
The shitty thing is, I DO check a few boxes but I can "pass" and I do not agree with the SJW movement, so clearly I have internalized -ism for everything!

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
This, and the absurdity of the SJW has made its way to Twitter in the last several weeks. It's getting out of hand.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah. fighting for what you believe in = good. taking it to the levels of bullying = BAD. VERY BAD. how are they not getting that they're the latter? especially when they attack people for something they found on the internet that the person said FIVE+ YEARS AGO. good lord SJW get off the computer. go outside. if you want to actually make a difference in the world, donate to causes and charities rather than bully strangers until they're afraid to go on the internet anymore.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 05:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm white, female, straight, and cis, and it's getting really hard to be a supporter of LGBT rights and civil rights in general when the SJWs dogpile on me because ~YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND OUR PAIN GO AWAY~~~~.

Oh, right then, I'll just let you cry and suffer and never get anywhere, because that's TOTALLY HOW THE REAL WORLD WORKS when you need to have your human rights sanctioned by governments.

Do none of these people understand that if you don't have help from other groups, no one will listen when you want your group to be protected from hate crimes? Read up on how the black civil rights movement gained supporters, and I guarantee the Black Panthers weren't the ones everyone flocked to.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 05:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I totally hear you on this. That's what prompted me to focus my energy on media and education reform.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck, so much agreement here.

I really love it (read: hate it) when you're like "chums, you are all being asshats, you're making it hard for me to keep standing up for you," and the response is "WELL WE DON'T NEED SHITTY ALLIES LIKE YOU ANYWAY GO BACK TO YOUR BIG FANCY MANSION IN WHITESVILLE YOU HORRIBLE FUCKING WASTE OF FLESH."

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:04 pm (UTC)(link)
EX-FUCKING-ACTLY. I mean, I understand that I will never be able to truly understand racism, homophobia, or transphobia, but I've not had an ideal life either. I understand freakin' poverty because I was homeless from about 12 to 15, and I understand sexism. Stop assuming that I can't possibly see the short end of the stick because I'm white, straight, female, cis, and went to college.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
+1000

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Change "straight" to "bi" and add "OMG YOU CAN PASS FOR STRAIGHT" and you have me.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'm straight, but I like slash and I'm dating a bi man...I can already hear the "OMG YOU'RE FETISHIZING QUEER MEN" comments a mile away.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay. See ya.

Besides your shit attitude about thinking you are the most important and essential voice for anyone's cause (and that is how you come across regardless of your intent when you word it so shittily), you may as well fuck right off if you're expecting pats on the back just for being an ally, and a non-altruistic one at that.

Appealing to your group (whether that's being white, straight, whatever idgaf) by making you comfortable and safe in spaces, where any marginalised group is seeking that, is never the point or a goal of anything.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, you're an idiot.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
Did you actually read the post you replied to?

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed so much. Getting real tired of the "FUCKING WHITE PEOPLE, THEY HAVE TO BE PART OF EVERYTHING" whines. What, you'd rather I just tell everyone who's not white to go fuck themselves? I can't even want to be an ally without being accused of being selfish and greedy?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-31 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly do not understand who people like you look at the world.

How entitled and whiny do you have to be that you're willing to remove support for equal rights and tolerance to a group of people because a few of them made you feel bad? How much of a self-centred douchebag do you have to be?

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 05:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I became pretty disenchanted after reading someone's takedown of Brave. I don't think we watched the same movie, because... wtf person. What. the. fuck.

And by that person's definition, I've gone through the child abuse they were railing against, but I know if I say something I'll get shut down because CLEARLY I don't know what's what.

I've also seen someone say that another person wasn't non-white enough for her opinion to matter on something.

And I'm a non-white, queer woman (with some unexplored gender issues because I don't want someone saying I'm ~appropriating~ their identity by trying to figure out my weird approach to my own fucking gender lolyay), also with mental disabilities (and an apparent history of child abuse,) but I don't want to speak up either, because I'll get shut down just as hard if I dare to disagree with someone. It's just fucked up that, if you disagree with a SJW, even if you are a member of the group they are supposedly fighting for, you get shut down, accused of derailing, etc.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
THIS. I'm also a non-white, queer woman who is fucking sick and tired of seeing SJWs tell me my reactions (or lack of reactions) are wrong, or that I'm using my experiences to 'invalidate' the oppression of others.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
a friend of mine refused to explain why she didn't like scott pilgrim (the movie, she's never read the books) more than "douchey white guy gets the girl, learns nothing" (which is completely true of the movie incidentally) and then told me to read some review that explained it better than she could so i did.

it was fucking awful. i get that everyone's a douche in the movie but the review was so completely off-base it was almost kind of amazing to read.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I used to get incredibly pissed off when someone said someone else was just looking for reasons to be offended because, really, who wants to be offended?!?!

Then I read reviews like that and start to wonder...

Re: ayrt

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(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 06:10 pm (UTC)(link)
PREACH. I was disgusted that a SJW I used to follow on Tumblr was bragging about people closing their Tumblr accounts because of bullying. It's sick.

Ranting McRant on a Rant Stick

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
SJ in fandom is starting to bug the fuck out of me, period. My fandom has gotten to the point of counting the number of encounters between a popular/polarizing couple and which were initiated by one and which were initiated by the other and whether it was REALLY consensual or maybe just abusive and and *wank* *wank* *wank*.

STOP APPLYING REAL LIFE CONCERNS/PROBLEMS/CRIMES/LABELS to FICTIONAL CHARACTERS/SITUATIONS within a narrative, on a show or in a book, that's telling a story. It's a fucking story, either go with it or find something else to fan over.

FUCK.

Re: Ranting McRant on a Rant Stick

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh god, this so much. I'm in fandom to get AWAY from how much real life sucks. Go help real people who are actually being hurt, FFS.

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Where's this bingo card?