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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-07-29 12:11 pm

[ Anon Meme ]

F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Generally ten to twenty minutes, unless I can't find something good to climax to which might take it up to thirty.

Now real talk time, how many times do you masturbate?

I've got in a once a day habit (just before bed).

But at my peak when I was working night shift security and had fuck all to do, some weeks I would manage easily five times a day for a week or two. Part of me worries that's not healthy, because when I see averages quoted it's like three or four times a week.

Bullshit!

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:18 pm (UTC)(link)
these days I raaarely do it. Like once every few weeks. I'm going through a depression spiral and my sex drive just doesn't exist right now, boo

but usually once or twice a day. When I was a teenager, it was way more

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I couldn't even vaguely estimate my rate as a teenager.

Idk, I've kept hearing the 'it changes when you get older', but I'm in my mid twenties now, and still have the sex drive of a teenage boy. Never had that 'omg not in the mood, tell my bf I've got a headache' thing. Always been the reverse which can be an awkward dynamic.

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-29 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I do it like five times a day if I have the time, too. Oddly, I am also a night shift worker.

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Roughly once a week. There are stretches of days where I don't or can't for whatever reason, but these tend to be followed up by extended seshes.

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-31 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
This is me. About once a week. I'd like it more, but if I don't have that "build up time" I generally can't get off. Sometimes it's different, like I'll have three "good days" in a row and then go two weeks without, but usually averages to once a week.

And often those aren't very good orgasms and don't last long. I've certainly never managed multiples. :/ I have a super low sex drive that was utterly non-existant until I turned 25. Now I'm 30 and it's still really low, to the point that I feel like I can never have a relationship with someone because they'll want either way more (i.e. "normal") or way less (i.e. asexual) sex than me. XD

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Usually once or twice a day, sometimes less, especially if I'm really tired.

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on how often I'm having sex. If I'm getting laid with another human being on a regular basis (like, once a week or more), then I'm likely to masturbate to orgasm about twice a week. If I'm not rolling in the hay reasonably often, though, it's funtime with Ms. Vibrator closer to once a day, sometimes more like twice a day.

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 06:28 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe every other day as, as you said, habit before sleep (it relaxes me) - but I can go a few weeks without doing it.

But yeah, about 5-6 times a week.

Re: Oblig masturbation thread

(Anonymous) 2012-07-30 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
When I first worked out how to have orgasms I'd get myself off every single day, which slowly went down to about three times a fortnight. Usually I go about three to four days between sessions.