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F!S Anon Meme (the Seventh, and now on DW!)

Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

Some ground rules:
1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with captchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

That's about it, though!

I'll be linking some general/general-fandom threads I see so people don't repost new threads with the same stuff.

Unpopular Ships
Obligatory Masturbation Thread
Fandoms you wish existed
How old are you?
What series have you always meant to watch/read/play/etc. but have never?
Time and location
Female-centric works
How do you feel about Tumblr?
Pet thread
Guilty pleasure thread
Favorite old shows
First fandom?

Comments

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

anon from the anal thread yesterday

Wow, I guess I really am not alone, then. I wouldn't say I "only" want anal, but still. It's good to know there are others out there that like it.

Unless you're a guy, in which case...nevermind.

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Awwww I missed an anal thread!? :(
Well, I wouldn't say I hate vaginal sex, I just didn't like it much at all. Either my (only)partner was very bad at it, or I just find it painful. And not in the stretching part, but the part where the head hits inside, it almost feels like my vagina is too short(the guy had a pretty small penis, so)? I don't know, TMI I think...

But yeah I would MUCH prefer anal sex, but my one boyfriend refused to do it when I asked. BAH. I absolutely love anal masturbation, so I know I can do it they just won't try it! And I would really enjoy fingering/licking a guy out too but I bet that's even further away from reality.

sorry for tl;dr.

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

Yep, here: http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/647292.html?thread=566399356#cmt566399356

But yeah. I've done it with one guy, loved it, and neither of the other two guys I've had sex with would do it.

Vaginal is just...I don't know. It hurt with the guy who was pretty large, but with the other two who were more normal/average, it's like...it's ok, but there's just not really much sensation for me, I guess?

It's weird, because aside from thinking it's gross, my friends think anal's gotta be really painful, and that hasn't been the case for me at all. Vaginal, when it's been painful, has been WAY more painful than anal's ever been.

I said I didn't want "only" anal but thinking about it...uh, yeah, I guess that would be pretty good if I could find a guy that was ok with it.

Re: Why are you single

[(Anonymous)]

I think ultimately everybody's nerves are different. I'm a guy who's pretty into anal and I've seen a good chunk across the spectrum.

Some girls, I think, it really is going to be painful for them no matter what. i knew a girl who did practice at it for a friend, and in the end, they only got as far as "It doesn't hurt anymore." they derived no pleasure from it.

Other girls, like you gals, talking here, are on the other end. It's great, you do it no problem, you fucking love it.

In between are probably the majority. It's gross, but it's a simple fact: if you can take a shit from it, you can fit something of equivalent size up there. Maybe you'll never like it, but most people can derive some pleasure from anal stimulation. If not, every crap you ever take must be painful.

I think a big chunk of it is mental, if you think ti's gonna hurt or your unsure, it'll probably hurt and be difficult. I've seen a big difference in the same people when I either jumped the gun (unintentionally) or when she was super turned on/a little tipsy/whatever. From "oh god that heads too big" to "pound that shit you motherfucker! I said fuck it!"

I think it tips more towards girls not liking it though because a lot of guys do it wrong. And of course, once it's been done badly, your sure it's going to hurt, so again, it hurts.

By the same token... there's a lot of completely straight guys out there this all will apply to as well.