[ SECRET POST #2037 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2037 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

da

It's not just the guy pressuring women though.

It's society. It's everyone. It's family, friends, the guy's friends.

Women are socialized to feel uncomfortable, guilty, etc. if they say no to a man asking them out. Not everyone is able to just go against hundreds of years of socializing women to not have standards, to not say no to men, etc. For fuck's sake.

[velvet_mace]

Actually, it seems its the other way around. A woman who says yes too easily and dates a bunch of guys is seen as being "loose" and "easy" and looked down on. But it could be different in your country. Do you live in a place with a lot of arranged marriages?

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

I live in the US, you condescending ass. And yeah-- women can't win. Welcome to sexism.

[velvet_mace]

Well then, if you are damned if you do and damned if you don't, you might as well only say yes to the guys you find attractive. For what it's worth, I think you are way overvaluing the guy and his friend's opinions, and way off on your families. Shitty, misogynistic, easily butthurt assholes exist, but you don't have to date them, and most people would be appalled if you did, for God's sake.

If some dude and his friends are calling you a frigid, consider yourself to have dodged a bullet by saying no to the dude.

[(Anonymous)]

that's what you call the good old double standard: a woman says no, she's frigid; she says yes, she's easy.