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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-07 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2044 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]


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[Suits]


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[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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[Homestuck]


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[Sherlock]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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[Cyborg 009]


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[The Amazing Spiderman]


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[Stargate Universe]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]


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[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]


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[Codex Alera]


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[Wishbone]


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[The Game OverThinker]


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[K-ON!]


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[Magical Diary]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #292.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-08-08 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Anon that threatened suicide to her boyfriend here--I was actually molested as a kid, too, so maybe it's a common...need for control thing?

Still, being abused doesn't give you an excuse to being abusive to other people. I hope he gets help, but please don't let him treat you this way, Anon! I hope everything goes okay.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-08-08 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe...What he said (TMI) is that he was with his cousin and a few of her friends at a slumber party or something. She asked him to have sex with her/her friends, and he did. (He was twelve, she was a few years older, I think)

I'm sorry that happened to you :/ I hope things work out for you, too~

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-08-08 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Eek. I can understand why that would screw him up. I definitely think he should seek help, but...yeah, it still doesn't excuse his actions.

And it's okay, I think I'm slowly learning to move on from it. The suicide threats and such were a long time ago! I'm still not the greatest person, but I think I'm getting better and finally learning how to treat other people better. I hope the same for your boyfriend.

Hopefully this isn't offensive to you or out of line, but--I'll be praying for both of you.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] cashay 2012-08-08 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Somehow it always makes me insanely happy when people who were hurtful to others in the past realize it and manage to turn their life around =) You go anon!

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-08-08 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, thank you. I've been feeling really down on myself the last few days, so that means a lot to me. <3
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Re: OP

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-08-08 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Your comments are actually really uplifting to me, anon. I have done some very emotionally manipulative/abusive things, and only hindsight (and, sadly, a little experience at the other end of the situation) made me realize exactly what I was doing. At the time, I felt (irrationally) desperate and alone and my pov was too warped to realize that what I was doing was truly wrong - or at least, it felt justified in that I thought I had no other option. Fortunately, I sought and found help and also grew up a lot. I want to be a truly good person who doesn't treat anyone like that anymore and I think I've made leaps and bounds. But it sucks to know you were once that person.

*hugs*