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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-07 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2044 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]


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[Suits]


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04.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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[Homestuck]


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08.
[Sherlock]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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[Cyborg 009]


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[The Amazing Spiderman]


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[Stargate Universe]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]


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[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]


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[Codex Alera]


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[Wishbone]


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[The Game OverThinker]


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[K-ON!]


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[Magical Diary]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #292.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Is this emotionally abusive, or am I just over-reacting? TMI Btw

(Anonymous) 2012-08-08 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
Yet he never sees 'your side' of things. A healthy relationship is one in which you both stand as equals. He has no right to tell you what to think or eel. You are not his puppet/property/pet/whatever the fuck ths guy thinks you are. You're entitled to your own opinions. 'Bitches be crazy' is the oldest excuse for coping when somebody disagrees with you. He's not willing to see you as anything but his sex toy who occasionally opens her mouth. The so-called 'facts' are bullshit. YOU ARE THE SOLE OWNER OF YOUR BODY. He can't tell you what to do with it.

Get out of the relationship, for your own sake. You never know when he'll stop being a manipulative asshole and become violent 'because you're so crazy and you just don't listen, it's all for you own sake'. This can end very, and I mean VERY badly for you. He's not above demanding sex from you; next thing he'll do is downright taking whatever he wants from you. And since your word is worthless to him, there'll be no difference if you refuse. To him, your body is his to use as he pleases.

The guy clearly has issues. IT'S NOT YOUR OBLIGATION TO UP WITH THEM AND/OR FIX THEM. YOU DON'T OWE HIM SHIT. No matter what you do, it won't be enough for him. HE has to change, not you. You don't have to sacrifice your mind/body/life for the sake of anybody. You're not helping him by doing what he wants, you're only furthering his fucked-up way of thinking.

Re: Is this emotionally abusive, or am I just over-reacting? TMI Btw

(Anonymous) 2012-08-08 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
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