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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-09 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2046 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2046 ⌋

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Re: Is this problematic or not? (warning: mention of domestic abuse)

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
No no! Your opinions are very good and appreciate it, but I just wanted to emphasize that, you know, the message was really not even a factor in the story, the situation was, so I was just wondering how far it "too far." Like, what the line would be between understandable but not-really-healthy reactions that most people would have, and what's skeevy creepy shit.

I wanted to kind of bring up the various modifiers to the situation so I could ask questions in order to get your opinion, and then ask if the opinion would change because of this plot device or that plot device, so that I could understand what plot devices would make a difference, and which ones would be "nope, same thing". I just...I dunno, I really want all the different considerations to be raised so that I can take them into account while writing the fic so I don't accidentally imply something I didn't want to. I wasn't arguing with you, I just wanted to ask more questions and do more exploration, I guess, so that I could get someone else's perspective on how their perception of the situation would change.

Re: Is this problematic or not? (warning: mention of domestic abuse)

(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
da

you could always make the character doubt himself by having other characters point out how creepy it is and try to help only to be denied by the abused character

like, get into some seriously psychological mindfuck with the reader, so that they can see into the abused character's mind, but also get that vibe that "something ain't right here"

you have a beta-reader of some sort, right? ask them if you're doing it right when you enter the "something ain't right here" factor