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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-09 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2046 ]


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(Anonymous) 2012-08-10 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, yikes yes I definitely see your perspective. Where I live, it's rather the opposite. I mean of course there are the very small sector at school that are extremely religious and adhere to all that abstinence only stuff. But most often while I was growing up I got bullied because I didn't have a boyfriend or didn't flirt and whatnot. Not that I think doing that stuff is bad at all, just wasn't for me. I mean, in 8th grade(uhh.. about age 13?) a few of my friends were talking about having sex with their boyfriends and they all came to unanimous decision that having anal is so much better because they don't have to worry about getting pregnant.

But there is so much wrong with THAT mindset(doing anal sex to avoid responsibility) thinking that I can't even begin to go into it. I think sexual education all over is completely fucked up and expectations and the view on sex really needs a change altogether. The more open people are with teaching their children about sex properly, the less we will have of these incorrect assumptions and horrible sitgmas for sexual activity.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-11 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
I sorry you had to deal with that growing up, anon.

The key is balance really, if we could just have healthy, moderate attitudes toward sex (rather than flipping between two unhealthy extremes) I feel a lot these issues could be alleviated.
And I agree wholeheartedly about about proper sex education; it's something I fight for frequently.