Oh, I just meant in response to the above commenter's remark about the boyfriend who told her to choose between him or her friends. I'm not NECESSARILY saying that the secret OP did that.
I feel like the way the secret is phrased makes it seem to me that his objection was that she spent time RPing sex AT ALL, and that it wouldn't have mattered how much or how little time she spent doing it - the impression it left with me was that he felt entitled to her time, and when she didn't get ALL of it, he dumped her.
Then again, I've known a lot of women who dated guys who felt entitled to their time and complained, threatened, etc. when said women did things that didn't involve them, like having hobbies (Rping, for example), going out with friends, and so on. A lot of men are VERY entitled when it comes to feeling like their girlfriends should be spending every waking moment with them.
That might not be fair, but it's my outsider perspective, lol, as I'm a lesbian anyway.
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I feel like the way the secret is phrased makes it seem to me that his objection was that she spent time RPing sex AT ALL, and that it wouldn't have mattered how much or how little time she spent doing it - the impression it left with me was that he felt entitled to her time, and when she didn't get ALL of it, he dumped her.
Then again, I've known a lot of women who dated guys who felt entitled to their time and complained, threatened, etc. when said women did things that didn't involve them, like having hobbies (Rping, for example), going out with friends, and so on. A lot of men are VERY entitled when it comes to feeling like their girlfriends should be spending every waking moment with them.
That might not be fair, but it's my outsider perspective, lol, as I'm a lesbian anyway.