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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-17 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2054 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2054 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[American Horror Story]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #293.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Possibly it is, but we don't know 100% of the story--had previous anon been ignoring the bf? Did he ask anon about it, or to cut back on it some other time?

I'm willing to take anon's side, but...eh.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-08-18 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
I can see real life friends who are a bad influence on you "it's me or the crack smokers!" I can see folks who fear there SO is, say, addicted to online gaming "It's me or call of duty!"

But "it's me or your friends" especially online friends who likely take up notable less of one's overall time, assuming all else is healthy? That's just a bad fucking sign right there and a way to make the answer very, very easy.
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[personal profile] curseangel 2012-08-18 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I just meant in response to the above commenter's remark about the boyfriend who told her to choose between him or her friends. I'm not NECESSARILY saying that the secret OP did that.

I feel like the way the secret is phrased makes it seem to me that his objection was that she spent time RPing sex AT ALL, and that it wouldn't have mattered how much or how little time she spent doing it - the impression it left with me was that he felt entitled to her time, and when she didn't get ALL of it, he dumped her.

Then again, I've known a lot of women who dated guys who felt entitled to their time and complained, threatened, etc. when said women did things that didn't involve them, like having hobbies (Rping, for example), going out with friends, and so on. A lot of men are VERY entitled when it comes to feeling like their girlfriends should be spending every waking moment with them.

That might not be fair, but it's my outsider perspective, lol, as I'm a lesbian anyway.