If the character is ace and ISN'T having sex, then it's made into this big deal in the fic too, like not having sex is this terrible thing, or if they do have sex it has to be this big deal. . .
I think this describes the reason why I'm so iffy about reading ace fic. I don't feel like the fact that I'm not into sex is weird at all, but if there's a whole fic about how it's such a BIG DEAL that someone doesn't want to have sex then I get really uncomfortable.
It's the reason I stopped watching highschool shows/sitcoms, because it always has to have that standard "omg, you've never been kissed/had sex, we must fix this right away or shame you into thinking you're some sort of freak! episode.
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I think this describes the reason why I'm so iffy about reading ace fic. I don't feel like the fact that I'm not into sex is weird at all, but if there's a whole fic about how it's such a BIG DEAL that someone doesn't want to have sex then I get really uncomfortable.
It's the reason I stopped watching highschool shows/sitcoms, because it always has to have that standard "omg, you've never been kissed/had sex, we must fix this right away or shame you into thinking you're some sort of freak! episode.