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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-17 06:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2054 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2054 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[American Horror Story]


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streetcake: (KG- too tired)

[personal profile] streetcake 2012-08-18 05:46 am (UTC)(link)
If the character is ace and ISN'T having sex, then it's made into this big deal in the fic too, like not having sex is this terrible thing, or if they do have sex it has to be this big deal. . .

I think this describes the reason why I'm so iffy about reading ace fic. I don't feel like the fact that I'm not into sex is weird at all, but if there's a whole fic about how it's such a BIG DEAL that someone doesn't want to have sex then I get really uncomfortable.

It's the reason I stopped watching highschool shows/sitcoms, because it always has to have that standard "omg, you've never been kissed/had sex, we must fix this right away or shame you into thinking you're some sort of freak! episode.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-18 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)
It's always a big deal in fic because most of the time the relationships are between an ace and a non-ace and not having sex with their partners will always be a big deal for a sexual person, at least initially.
streetcake: (KG- too tired)

[personal profile] streetcake 2012-08-18 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I know. It's not really about that, but more of the attitude that the fact that they don't have sex in general is so weird and alien and they can't comprehend it and think they have a problem that needs to be fixed.

Obviously there will be relationship issues, but the issues I don't wanna see are when outsiders or the LI start telling this ace person how they're sexuality needs to be instead of accepting them the way they are. Especially when it comes to outsiders who aren't affected by this persons lack of sexuality at all.