case: ([ Zell; BWUH. ])
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-07-31 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #207 ]


⌈ Secret Post #207 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2007-07-31 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I empathize with you. I had a similar situation, where the person desperately wanted me to go with them on everything even if I was low on sleep. I thought I was being a good friend, and I was even offended when people told me this friend was greedy and self-centered. But one day the person found a "better" friend, and told me off for not being good enough, even though I sacraficed whatever I was capable to even. I even broke up with my boyfriend for insulting them. If I were you, I'd gradually weed this person out of my life altogether, or keep it sparse. It sounds like the sort of relationship that would eventually wear you down and take it's toll.

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(Anonymous) 2007-08-01 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Don't worry; I talk to her occasionally on AIM (where she just keeps talking about her own fandom, of course) but it's not more than very loose back-and-forth, and not even once a week. I won't see her again until January, and even then it'll be just running across her for a few minutes because we'll be at the same place. I don't consider her a part of my life anymore.
I'm really sorry that happened to you; that is HARSH. Better luck in the future.