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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-22 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2059 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2059 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 045 secrets from Secret Submission Post #294.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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(Anonymous) 2012-08-23 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Um...not really? Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction. OP could very well be Grey-A though, and that is in the spectrum.

Asexuals can have sex and still be asexual, it's all about the sexual attraction aspect.
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[personal profile] countess_k 2012-08-23 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
It's actually a lack of interest in sex, as in sex with another person. Asexuals can and do have kinks/things that arouse them. The big difference is that for them it results in masturbation instead of intercourse.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-23 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
I do know this lol, I am ace.

Anyway.

OP says they wanna fuck this lady. Literally what the secret says.

A person is not a kink. The secret implies sexual attraction to a person. The secret implies an interest in sex with this person. So.

Of course, OP could very well be asexual with an exception. They could be Grey-A. They could be any other orientation. They could choose not to label. It's up to them.


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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-08-23 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
No. Asexual is having no physical reaction/arousal to sexual stimuli as well as having no interest in having a sexual relationship with a person.

True asexuals do not masturbate, because they do not have physical/emotional arousal.

People who say they are asexual, but masturbate or have feelings of arousal are not really true asexual. Not having or wanting an SO does not automatically equate asexuality.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-23 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
lol nope
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[personal profile] ellie_oops 2012-08-23 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Care to elaborate?

Better yet, look up the definition of asexual. Asexuality is defined as not having any sexual desires, wherein they feel no physical arousal and have in interest in engaging in sexual activity.

Having a sexual attraction to another immediately makes the self appointed label of "Asexual" null and void.

Why is this hard to understand?

90% of the people who "identify as asexual" online are full of crap. They want to give themselves a sense of being a special snowflake, they want to tell the rest of the internet how ~unique~ they are. They want to give themselves a sense that they are "misunderstood" or "oppressed" by a society that is full of people having sex with each other. Oh poor them, having to live in a world where they are only attracted to cartoon detectives who ride around on sparkly unicorns. That is not asexuality, and no amount of sexual "bingo terming" is going to change that.

(Anonymous) 2012-08-23 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
oh ok glad you know all that

and you know i'm glad your definition trumps the asexual founded definition of asexuality made in 2002.