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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-24 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2061 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2061 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Xena: Warrior Princess]


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02.
[tales of symphonia]


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03.
[The Girl From Tomorrow]


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04.
[Spyro the Dragon]


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05.
[Lamento -Beyond the Void-]


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06.
[Aidan Gillen]


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07.
[Skyrim]


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08.
[Touhou Project]


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09.
[Total Recall]


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10.
[Castle]



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11.
[Spyro the Dragon]


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12. [SPOILERS for the Dark Knight Rises]



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13. [SPOILERS for Digimon 02]



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14. [SPOILERS for the Borgias]



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15. [SPOILERS for Tales of Symphonia]



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16. [SPOILERS for asoiaf/game of thrones]



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17. [SPOILERS for A Dance With Dragons]



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18. [WARNING for eating disorders]



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19. [WARNING for pedophilia, rape, child abuse]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #294.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-24 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
da

I disagree. Take a trip at the Content Violation forums on TV Tropes and see how many people have become so desensitized AND then had other similar people reaffirm them in a feedback loop that now they can't even tell what counts as porn or as sexualizing children.

It took them a ridiculous amount of time to decide which pages to keep, and they kept (with an instruction to "clean") a lot of pages that blatantly sexualize children in a "family friendly wiki". They saw nothing wrong with this.

I used to think just like you do until I saw that and realized that people (not all, granted, but a scary chunk) were starting to see lolicon and shotacon as normal.

Obviously not everyone reading/watching them are molesting children, but they're contributing towards keeping that market alive.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-24 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, exactly. The problem is sexualized children being so commonplace that people no longer give a shit. It's the car alarm effect. People are so desensitized to the car alarm that their intended purpose no longer exists. Nobody's going to report when they hear one go off because lol, that shit happens all the time, it's just a cat or something.
ext_81845: amuro ray from mobile suit gundam, in his underwear, from the doan's island episode (WTF?!)

Re: tw for child abuse

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
If you're worried about people becoming desensitized to the sexualization of children then maybe stuff like the Disney Channel and kids' clothing should be taken into question before something like loli hentai -- since the former is way more prevalent and embedded in our culture.

It's a cultural problem in general. And I don't know a single person who thinks loli or shota is normal, most people I talk to online consider it something gross that creeps like. Just because people joke about it and dismiss it, it doesn't necessarily mean they think it's acceptable
ext_81845: amuro ray from mobile suit gundam, in his underwear, from the doan's island episode (WTF?!)

Re: tw for child abuse

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Er, excuse me. Nickelodeon. Whichever channel has iCarly and that kind of shit.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-24 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that should all be taken into question at the same time, not before or after anything else. Including shit like toddler beauty pageants, too.
ext_81845: amuro ray from mobile suit gundam, in his underwear, from the doan's island episode (WTF?!)

Re: tw for child abuse

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-08-24 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
FUCK YES now that creeps me the fuck out. Most of the time it's the mom just living this weird sick fantasy out vicariously through their children. I think it's tantamount to child abuse

But you know, whatever, let's bitch about something that the vast majority of Americans have absolutely no exposure to, because IT BOTHERS US

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-25 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
I think there was a girl who was dressed up as Julia Roberts in Toddlers and Tiaras. Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman and before she meets Richard Gere...
ext_81845: amuro ray from mobile suit gundam, in his underwear, from the doan's island episode (WTF?!)

Re: tw for child abuse

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-08-25 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Well, apparently this is normal, give that child her own reality tv series immediately
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Re: tw for child abuse

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-08-25 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
ugh, Toddlers and Tiaras is the fucking worst. That show grosses me out and I honestly don't understand how anyone watches it. =/

/judgey mcjudgerson here

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-27 04:59 am (UTC)(link)
I made a snarky comment to my mother recently about watching Dance Moms, "...but at least you don't watch Toddlers in Tiaras".

Spoke too soon.

*facepalm*
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Re: tw for child abuse

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-08-27 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
0_____0

I really don't know how I'd feel if I found out my *mom* watched that show. Actually I do, I'd think it was really gross.

Fortunately I know my mom also hates it. (We see commercials for it when we watch What Not to Wear lol)

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-28 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
Makes me feel like I dodged a bullet when I dropped ballet for horseback riding, that's for sure.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-25 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
okay here

read the arguments used here and try not to die a little on the inside:

("family friendly site", let me remind you)

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/posts.php?discussion=13364797500A72880100&page=0

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/posts.php?discussion=13362753680A13721300&page=0

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/posts.php?discussion=13362508410A56639200&page=0

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/posts.php?discussion=13372053120A68660100&page=0

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/conversations.php?topic=5p

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-25 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
This, seriously. That's way more skeevy than shota/loli because it's real kids and it's teaching real kids that it's okay to be sexual at a young age. I saw a girl who couldn't have been older than eight today wearing booty shorts so short that her ass was practically hanging out. THAT'S a hell of a lot more damaging than someone enjoying a kink in private.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-25 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
That's pretty damned awful but don't minimize what can happen when pedos who "enjoy their kinks in private" can't get off to 'drawn' kid porn anymore and go looking for the real thing.

It's not true for everyone who get off on drawn kid porn, but it's true enough that I wish ALL forms of kid porn were illegal. I don't care if it's a kink for some people, it's DISTURBING to me that there are people who get off on kids having sex with adults or with each other. It FEELS like vicimization, whether anyone's being abused in the art or not...maybe because in the back of my mind I know that somewhere in the world, there IS a real child being abused by the same acts that are getting a fan of drawn kid porn off.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-26 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
"it's DISTURBING to me that there are people who get off on kids having sex with adults or with each other."

That's because you (and I) are in the .0000001% of people on the Internet who actually feel this way, my fellow anon.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-27 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
Here's how I tend to see it.

Is it possible (and maybe it's not, I have to psychology training, so I'm just talking out of my hat here) that there are people who do find children arousing, presumably through no fault of their own - I don't recall being asked to fill out a survey to determine what my own personal kinks would be, were you? - but are sane and compassionate enough to realize that "If I EVER act on these desires, there is no rationalization strong enough to change the fact that I am causing real harm to a real child, and thus I will not do it"?

Or does the very fact of having this particular predilection go hand-in-hand with the lack of ability to understand - or care - that preserving other people's safety is more important than getting off? Certainly the latter trait can exist independent of pedophilia, or rape of adults would never happen, but is the reverse true?

For a person in that situation, the difference between this kind of art and pornographic photos might be similar to the way I love crime fiction but can't stand true-crime books - because with the latter, I'm unable to look past the real person's victimization and suffering being shoved in my face, while the former is escapism.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-26 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
da

Yes, the Disney Channel and kids' overly-sexualized clothing SHOULD be taken into account as well. But that's so "normal" at this point, that cartoon CP (no matter what kind of Asiatic-sounding name you slap on it) is starting to breach the boundaries of "normal" as well.

Not to mention all the secrets posted here BY TEENAGERS who are absolutely desensitized to this stuff, AND THEY DON'T EVEN REALIZE HOW TERRIBLE THAT IS.

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-26 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
sa

And don't get me started on the sewage dump that is TLC thank you.....

Re: tw for child abuse

(Anonymous) 2012-08-25 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
To be honest, the TV Tropes forums (and the Troper Tales pages before they got axed) seemed pretty full of people who either had some issues or were outright sick fucks to begin with...