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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-03 03:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2071 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2071 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-04 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
I don't really know what's helpful in this circumstance, but when she starts going after what other people post might be a chance to gently speak up.

Say, when she gets negative about positive posts, you might say "Sometimes we have legitimate reasons to feel bad but sometimes we have legitimate reasons to feel happy. You shouldn't attack people for what they feel because it's not like they can help it."

When she complains about people posting about relatively minor problems, you could say "Just because they don't have it as bad as you doesn't mean their problems aren't real, and for all you know, maybe they actually have it worse than you and only happen to publicly complain about smaller problems."

I have no idea if that will help, but maybe appealing to the idea that she's not the only one with real feelings and problems might have some effect?