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⌈ Secret Post #2074 ⌋

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Comments

[ariakas]

she's not coming down on "most girls"

Most girls want a man with the bling-bling
Got my own thing, got the ching-ching
I just want real love
Most girls want a man with the mean green

Yes, yes she is. She literally is. She is literally saying that "most girls" are money-grubbers who prioritize a man's finances over "real love".

In fact, she's saying every girl (who is not her) is like this:

Getting paid was everything

But I'm not every girl
And I don't need that world to validate me

Seek for a man who gots the means
To be giving you diamond rings
It's what every fly girl
Could want or even dream

But I'm not every girl
And I don't need no g to take care of me

Whereas she, the superior one, can "pay her own rent" (as opposed to "every" and "most" girls, who cannot) and "doesn't want to dance if it's not in (her) heart" (as opposed to "most" or "every" girl who, as we saw above, just wants to fuck a man with the "mean green").

No, that is exactly what I thought I read. What I literally read. Her words.

[(Anonymous)]

The lyrics literally say that most girls care about money. Is this untrue? Caring about money is not necessarily a bad thing unless you're already reading it that way.

[ariakas]

It's not just that, though. She's saying that they care about it at the expense of "real love" (hence her contrast between herself and her imagined "most" or "every" girl). If it were just "'most' girls care about money", and not "most/every girls care about money more than feelings and are dependent on men, except for me who is superior because I don't" I would still think it was problematic for solely pointing the finger at women(because let's face it, most people care about money) but it wouldn't make me rage like this, no.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know, I don't get that impression.

"Most girls like romance in their fanfic, but I'm not every girl. I just want real action. I don't need ships." "Most fanartists seek praise as validation but I'm not every fanartist. I just want real crit. I don't need reviews." I don't think there's superiority in there unless you already think liking romance or seeking validation is something negative.

[ariakas]

Really? Those statements wouldn't piss you off? Huh. Because they would me. Generalization and dumb, ham-handed stereotyping piss me off plenty: who says "every" girl likes romance? Has she asked every other girl? Moreover, the chances that someone would make the latter statement about "validation" without intending to come off as superior swiftly approach zero, because fanfic culture constantly derides "attention-seeking" behaviour like "demanding reviews". Same with the former; nobody is making these comments in a cultural vacuum. Pink most certainly isn't, either.

Please explain to me how, in our culture, one can say they prioritize true feelings or affection over money, whereas most of their group prioritizes money over true feelings or affection, without the implication that they are superior to the rest of their group.

Because "someone can say they do something our culture values over something else while the rest of the group does something stereotypical and less valued without it being a value judgement - and if you interpret it that way it's because you're the bigot" sounds awfully dodgy, to me.

[(Anonymous)]

I dunno you guys... I think they should make out.

( http://fuckyeahcreamsicle.tumblr.com/ )

[darkmanifest]

She's saying "most girls" want guys who are paid, and she no longer cares what kind of money he's got so long as she gets "real love". She does not say it makes her better, she's saying it makes her different from what "most girls" - such girls being other female performers - were talking about. At the time that songs like those (i.e. Destiny Child's "Independent Women Part I") were coming out, they were contradictions to most of the popular female R&B pop songs out at the time (i.e. TLC's "No Scrubs", which had just won a Grammy around then) which bragged about preferring guys who had big cash flows. This was the start of what would become Pink's main (and problematic, in directly antagonistic songs like "Stupid Girls") M.O., as a performer who held herself apart from other female pop performers.

So what I see the words saying is different from you see. You see "most girls are such stupid money-grubbers and I'm totally awesome", I see "most girls factor cash flow into their romances, that's not my thing". My only problem with what you see is that you keep saying it's the only valid idea of what's being said.

[ariakas]

Confession here: I don't listen to a lot of pop music. I know about this song, because some classmates that the time were in love with it and very much did use it to create and "us versus them" mentality I found despicable. I listen to even less R&B, so if they intention was simply to critique the songs you mention, a) I really have no context for that, and b) that certainly wasn't how it was interpreted amongst my peer group of young (white) women. By critiquing R&B culture and hip hop/urban groups, however, Pink is assuming she has the right to do so, which given her position of privilege I really don't think she has. But that's a whooollle different discussion.

This was the start of what would become Pink's main (and problematic, in directly antagonistic songs like "Stupid Girls") M.O., as a performer who held herself apart from other female pop performers.

This is what I cannot stand about Pink, put very succinctly. Pink has made a career out of "I am not like those other girls, who are dumb and shallow". She's the spokeswoman for the harmful, misogynistic "us versus them" mentality.

[(Anonymous)]

Because she totally didn't write this song to inspire young impressionable girls to stand for themselves and be independent! Nope! Because all song lyrics written from a first-person perspective should be taken at face value and can only represent the feelings of the artist!

Sigh. Most music fans tend to put themselves in the shoes of the artist when it comes to lyrics like these. They're written in a way that allows a person to relate to it directly so that when they sing it aloud or even think about it, they can find encouragement or inspiration. THAT'S ALL IT IS. Seriously. Pink isn't saying that every girl that's not her fucking sucks. She just writes songs in a way to entice strong feelings and relate directly to the listener. A superficial pop star would not sing about how great it is to be able to pay the rent and have a job. Only somebody that really understands their audience would do that.

And another thing, you don't have to be a female to find Pink's songs empowering just because they're generally about "GURL POWER YEEEAHHH!!" The only way I could see anybody being offended by these lyrics is if they themselves were "money-grubbers". How on earth is congratulating yourself on being independent and stable a bad thing?

[ariakas]

How on earth is congratulating yourself on being independent and stable a bad thing?

Because she's stereotyping and denigrating women as a whole in order to do so.

Pretttttty straightforward how that's problematic, I should think.

The only way I could see anybody being offended by these lyrics is if they themselves were "money-grubbers"

Strange, every boyfriend I've ever had has made less money than me, yet I was still offended by the implications a) "every" woman prioritizes money, and b) those who rely on money (or rather, women who rely on men's money) are inferior to those that don't.

Happy to broaden your horizons, anon.

[checkerblob.livejournal.com]

I really can't believe anyone's arguing with you. Those lyrics are obviously misogynistic "I'm not like *~other girl" drivel.

[ariakas]

I think, as one anon below suggested, they're mostly taking issue with my tone (which was admittedly harsh, now that I read these comments over).

Otherwise, yeah, this looks - and has always looked - pretty black and white and repugnant to me. "Stupid Girls" by the same artist is even worse.