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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-08 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2076 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2076 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-09 01:33 pm (UTC)(link)
So you are invalidating my identity. You're saying that my rare and fleeting attractions to men are of as great import to how I choose to label myself as my overwhelmingly greater attraction to women, the fact that I only date women and have only dated women since I came out because identifying as bisexual led to more than one unhappy relationship with a man I was attracted to but not sexually, and the fact that I have only had and will only ever have sex with women.

Would you tell a straight person who admitted that they found a person of the same sex attractive once or twice in their life and never acted on such attraction, people who'd fall as 1s or 2s on the Kinsey scale, that they technically can't call themselves straight because of it?

There are more nuances in attraction and sexuality, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.