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I forgot to add that we study Psychology. We are just starting but the inability to think how one person's mindset may be affected by their situation was one of the reasons this bothered me so much. If this same comment came from someone not on this field I may be annoyed but would take it as ignorance and let it go more easily, I think.

AYRT

If you're just starting though- not everyone is a good student or suited for their field. Just 'cause she has an interest in psychology... well.

If you are still talking to this girl, I think you need to have a talk about co-dependency vs "like".

There's kinda a difference.

Yeah we are partners in every group work for the term so we'll still talk.

I'm kind of annoyed that the lecture interrupted our conversation. Now I have to drag the topic back into light to talk about it u.u

Heh, I decided it will be my task for the term, I have a couple months to bring the topic back and talk to her

Yeah, abused people don't generally have a good sense of what they 'like' in people anymore. Someone saying 'they are good to me sometimes' when they are being abused does not mean they enjoy it, they just have a warped view of the world and of people due to abuse.

I'm in an AS program for Counseling and Human Services and some of my classmates are THE. Most. Judgmental. People. EVAR.

I'm older than most of them (46) and i've seen a lot in my life, experienced a lot, and I feel a great compassion for most people. Sometimes in class, I'm appalled by the snarky attitude from other students. It's crazy.

I had to ask one of my instructors why this happens and she said that it comes from people being afraid of their feelings, blocking with attitude so that they don't have to process it.

:) S!B:Sometimes I would like to help them process their stupidity with a sledgehammer. LOLOLOL

I had to ask one of my instructors why this happens and she said that it comes from people being afraid of their feelings, blocking with attitude so that they don't have to process it.

That would explain the sheer amount of jerks I know who are studying Psych right now in college.

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