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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-11 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2079 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2079 ⌋

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Sharing something good this time

[personal profile] enigmasphinx 2012-09-11 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Today I finally got in touch with the one person I was missing from my old high school posse. There were four of us who hung around all the time, a knot of friends in a very small private school where we sooo didn't fit in. We lost track of one another in 1982-83, moved on, married, had lives...

For most of the intervening years, I had an on again/off again friend who would stick to me like glue then dump me wicked hard and painfully. I got the impression over time that I was a horrible person, a bad friend, worthless and lucky if people wanted to hang out with me at all. She bailed again a few years ago and I didn't go after her. I didn't let her back into my life this time.

I would rather have no friends at all than the kind she was to me.

Somehow I found my old friends from high school. Through FB and Classmates dot com, I located the people who were my best friends ever. It has warmed my heart that each one has said they been looking for me. They remembered me. They were excited to hear from me.

How could I be as bad a person as my "old friend" told me I was if these people remember me with such joy and fondness? How can I be the shitty one if there are people who have been trying to find me for such a long time?

I can't be all bad if people I thought the world of also think the world of me, can I? So.... I'm happy to have found them, I'm re-evaluating my self-image, and I just wanted to share that with y'all.

Tl;DR--- Got a self-esteem boost, life improved!! :)

Re: Sharing something good this time

(Anonymous) 2012-09-12 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
\o/ :D
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Re: Sharing something good this time

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2012-09-12 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
<3