[ SECRET POST #2079 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2079 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Fiancee with the 40k debt anon

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

But it is pretty skeevy to marry someone and know that you have serious debt problems and not tell them about it. Just fucking be honest. I would be pissed as hell if my SO waited until after we were married to let me know about their debt. Far, far more upset than I would have been if they let me know earlier in the relationship. If you lie about that shit, what else would you lie about? Not a great way to start a marriage is what I'm trying to say.

Re: Fiancee with the 40k debt anon

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I would never lie about that, but at the same time I don't think I'd ever be all that upset? I can't know for sure how I'd react to a situation until I'm in it but I honestly don't think I'd be too upset if someone I loved and planned to spend the rest of my life with confessed to being in debt. Not like they confessed to being a pedophile or a rapist or something.

Yes, the lady should have been up front. But I don't think it was OPs job to spill the beans. And it seems like OP is taking way too much glee out of this lady's poor predicament just because she personally didn't like her.

Re: Fiancee with the 40k debt anon

[(Anonymous)]

Do they plan to take care of the debt themselves though? This girl obviously wasn't since she had got the guy to pay for her debt before. I get not caring if the other person's like "yeah I have debt but I'm gonna pay it off" but if they hide it from you then tell you later after you gave them money for the debt they said was smaller the first time uh. Warning bells.

Re: Fiancee with the 40k debt anon

[fingalsanteater]

If the woman was keeping this a secret from her potential spouse, someone needed to let him know. Depending on where the couple lived and what kind of debt it was, the non-liable spouse could be held liable if the debt ended up in collections. It is never a good idea to keep debt secret because you could ruin your spouse's credit and finances as well.

Re: Fiancee with the 40k debt anon

[(Anonymous)]

It's not a big deal for you, anon. For some people, this is a huge issue. When you're married in some countries, you are responsible for your spouse's debt. 40k is a huge amount of money.

I would file for divorce if this happened to me. :x

This is a basic violation of trust.