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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-11 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2079 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2079 ⌋

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Re: Fiancee with the 40k debt anon

(Anonymous) 2012-09-12 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
That being said, I could be taking this too personally since I have massive debt (around 100k) and am really sensitive about the topic. A lot of shame and embarrassment connect with large debt

I don't anyone here is saying that having a large amount of debt makes you a bad person or anything. It's a pretty common problem. Just don't wait until you're married to someone to bring it up with them. It's not hard. Anyone can do that.

OP

(Anonymous) 2012-09-12 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
IA. I think the anon with the debt and my coworker had really, really different feelings about debt. Anon doesn't sound like she would brag to coworkers about how she got her fiance to pay off the first 10k and was hanging on for the rest, which this lady was doing. :/