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fandomsecrets2012-09-11 06:42 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-09-11 06:42 pm
[ SECRET POST #2079 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2079 ⌋
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 057 secrets from Secret Submission Post #297.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
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Re: TW mentions of abuse; guy who blabbed about girlfriend's abuse update
If you look at this thread it kind of makes my point -- OP technically told someone too (us), but no one is condemning her for that, because 1) we don't know the woman and 2) OP was asking for advice, not bad-mouthing the woman.
My point is just that the jerkery isn't so much that telling the secret is objectively wrong, it's that the BF was 1) telling the secret to someone who knew the person (so "My girlfriend doesn't X" isn't just a statement about someone random, but a statement about someone OP knows), which means OP then would feel beholden to the person the secret is about and 2) telling the secret for a frivolous/selfish reason.