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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-16 03:23 pm

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Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-09-16 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
but I do want to have my "first" be with someone I care about and have been dating for a while at least.

And in 23 years you haven't found anyone you care about? That just seems depressing. Sorry, that's how I really feel.

Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

(Anonymous) 2012-09-16 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
sooo...someone who has more important things on their plate than serious long-term relationships is a depressing thing to you? Wow.

Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

(Anonymous) 2012-09-16 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
That they care about to have sex with, jesus. Also to be more accurate it's only seven years, give or take, of looking for a possible sexual partner.

It's really shitty of you to look down on people for what they choose to do with their body and emotions.

Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

(Anonymous) 2012-09-17 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
So this person can't have friends or family that they care about deeply and be happy? The only way they can ever be satisfied with life is if they care about someone enough to fuck them?

If you really think that's all someone is worth, then you've got issues. Go talk to Dr. Phil or something.
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Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

[personal profile] saku 2012-09-17 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
well i'm 23 and i've never been in a serious relationship, mostly because i have super high standards and pretty much nobody who's willing to come near me fits the bill. shrug. i'm not in any hurry and i'm not willing to compromise on my standards so whatever. nobody besides me should even care.
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Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

[personal profile] caecilia 2012-09-17 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Being depressed for people who are perfectly happy seems like a huge waste of time.
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Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

[personal profile] herongale 2012-09-17 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my god, you actually feel that way, don't you?

Now that is depressing.

Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

(Anonymous) 2012-09-17 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 32 and while not a virgin, I've never had a relationship that lasted longer than a few months (although a few of those involved people I'd been or would go on to be friends with for much longer), and some didn't even last long enough for sex to happen, so I can fully understand why someone simply wouldn't find a good opportunity, even by the "advanced" age of 20 or 23.

No matter how much you want it and no matter how much energy you put into looking, there is never a guarantee that you will be able to get a date, much less a life partner, at any particular time.

It's a numbers game and some of us have just had bad luck so far.
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Re: embarrassing clit/clock block thread

[personal profile] silverau 2012-09-17 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
I have no words for how stupid this comment is.