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⌈ Secret Post #2084 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Those goddamn songs

[(Anonymous)]

After I posted my comment, I realized you meant monogamous as in one primary partner, not in one sexual partner. This other sense is very rare in my mother language. And yes, in that sense open relationships can be either monog or poly - I guess I'd still call mine non-monog since not only casual sex is acceptable, but also going out with other people.

I was in a monogamous relationship for over 3 years and I've never cheated on my partner, even though I already knew monogamy wasn't for me. Even so, I never felt strongly about cheating like he did or other people do. If he had cheated on me, I probably would have just told him we either opened the relationship or called it quits.**
Having said that, I definitely understand it's something very hurtful - it's just that it seems that for other people it's a *lot* more hurtful than other kinds of lying, while for me it isn't.

**I do think this particular take is not representative of how most people who are in open relationships would react when they were in monog ones and cheated on.

Re: Those goddamn songs

[diet_poison]

Cheating isn't the same thing as lying, though. They often go hand in hand, but they aren't synonymous.

Thanks for your perspective, though :) and no problem, sometimes it's hard to tell what people mean on this kind of topic.