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fandomsecrets2012-09-17 06:34 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-09-17 06:34 pm
[ SECRET POST #2085 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2085 ⌋
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Re: Is ERP cheating?
(Anonymous) 2012-09-18 12:31 am (UTC)(link)See, I never considered it as cheating either. I would have never started it if I honestly believed it would be an act of betrayal to my boyfriend. But reading everyone else's comments, it seems that I am, even though I feel inside that I'm not.
I didn't keep it from him out of guilt initially. It just felt...an awkward subject to bring up. But now that time has passed, and what I thought was just a fleeting thing became longer, it just seemed so much worse if I brought it up now.
I think I'm going to end the ERPing. It would just crush me inside if I kept going, knowing that it could wreck what I have at any second. I'm going to keep in contact with the other guy though, since I really do treasure our friendship (and if he doesn't, well that's fine too.)
And I'm not going to tell my bf. I'll just think of this as a boundary not to cross again, unless I speak with him first, and move on. I think that's the best thing I can do rather than risk something so important over something so little in retrospect.