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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-03 05:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2101 ]


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sultani: (pretty Alice /Pandora Hearts)

I'm too dizzy to elaborate on this tonight but briefly

[personal profile] sultani 2012-10-04 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
What do you do about someone who you haven't talked to in years, who you try to keep in contact with getting up in your grills and saying you're a bad friend because you never pay attention to her issues even though you're the only one who keeps contact, SHE attacks you at every chance she gets -like on facebook status about feeling ill, calls you selfish, and when you try talking it out she blows up at you, doesn't tell you the reason and blocks you.

And when you go "lol bye" she winds up asking mutual friends to "make you understand"?

It's like, I asked you.

And I'm actually a very understanding person. But I have feelings and boundaries too -when you constantly talk over my life, refuse to even acknowledge that I've gone through shit and then get mad when I avoid you/keep my space while still keeping contact? Really, you wonder why? Idek.

I miss what we had, but I can't have this in my already miserable life.

Re: I'm too dizzy to elaborate on this tonight but briefly

(Anonymous) 2012-10-04 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
Stop being friends with them, probably. Just... sever.
forgottenjester: (Default)

Re: I'm too dizzy to elaborate on this tonight but briefly

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2012-10-04 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
She sure sounds like a real charmer. *Shrug* I'd drop her like a hot potato. Find someone who actually respects me.

Re: I'm too dizzy to elaborate on this tonight but briefly

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-10-04 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Stick with lol bye and let mutual friends know you aren't willing to discuss it with them. Not really sure how FB works but can you block her, unfriend her, whatever?

Just cut all contact and don't engage. Doesn't sound like someone who is ever going to see things from your side or can be reasoned with.
tabaqui: (Default)

Re: I'm too dizzy to elaborate on this tonight but briefly

[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-10-04 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
You drop 'em. Life is seriously too short for that kind of shite. Unfriend, block, whatever you gotta do, and refused to discuss.

Good luck!
silverau: (Default)

Re: I'm too dizzy to elaborate on this tonight but briefly

[personal profile] silverau 2012-10-04 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
It sucks to lose friends in such... unpleasant ways. Especially since she's dragging mutual friends into it, too. :< I hope you're able to cut her out of your life and I hope your real friends will stand by you and not take her side and dump you or whatever.