[ SECRET POST #2105 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2105 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 107 secrets from Secret Submission Post #301.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Hmmm... then I oversimplified fellatio vs cunnilingus, and a lot of poorly worded sentiment on my part then. I don't want a quota, but it was a really simplistic way for me to say that there's equal attention all around, rather than the woman being degraded or secondary to the man getting off in open het prompts/requests that don't specifically ask for that. Some kink memes I've ended up equating the two in my head, because the trend was to describe them as unpleasant, or the overall feeling was that the woman wasn't supposed to enjoy herself, in any way.

so... my mistake

As for warnings and labels... I guess I will have to disagree? I understand what you're saying, but I'm on the other side of that discussion. Noncon triggers me outright, and dubcon triggers on bad days. I would like to be aware of what I'm getting into before I'm hit by it, or so that I can come back to it when I'm in the right head space.

...but I don't engage in discussions about whether or not it should be enforced, and I try to stay out of those arguments, because of what you said--that it turns into some big squick dog pile, which is sometimes worse than accidentally stumbling into an unlabeled dub/non con story. I just wish that it's recognized as important. Oftentimes people who don't warn and are politely asked to... react defensively, and I just... don't think that's okay, either.