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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-08 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2106 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2106 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-08 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
The problem is, it feels as though the people they apply to expect everyone else to understand them. Automatically. If you don't understand the label, you don't UNDERSTAAAAAAND the person and thus you're oppressing them and their right to their own identity. So every new concoction feels like a new moving of an already shifty set of goalposts, they're getting narrower and narrower, and people will get attacked if they take a shot and hit the post [/overstretched analogy].

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-09 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly have not seen anybody get mad at someone for not knowing a specified label.

Asexuality and aromanticism maybe, since those are broad and often confused (which leads to ugh not this shit again)

But I've never seen people get angry at others for not knowing sex-repulsed or libidoist. Some asexuals don't even know those terms.

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-09 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
It also makes it hard for people to ask questions, and come to an understanding about it.

Simply 'not understanding' does not always mean that you don't care, or that you hate them or are being ignorant.
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[personal profile] tyger66 2012-10-09 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Not knowing something =/= oppressing someone, and I seriously doubt you've been accused of oppressing someone just because you asked them to explain. Maybe because you added rants about 'labels' and asexual people having ~massive issues~, people came to the conclusion that you're a huge dick and reacted accordingly.