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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-08 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2106 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2106 ⌋

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elaminator: (Tiger & Bunny: Karina)

Re: /is being used

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-10-09 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
While I appreciate the answer, I'm not really sure what the best way of doing that is. I've never been in a situation quite like this before.
caecilia: (vampires)

Re: /is being used

[personal profile] caecilia 2012-10-09 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry. I don't know your exact situation. Do you only know them online or do they nearby? Is it someone you have to see at work?

I've had to do it in the past, with RL and online people. And my way is probably not the best, but at the time it was the only thing I knew how to do. I just deleted them from my phone, got new screen names, and told myself every day not to talk to them no matter how much I wanted to. Eventually it got easy.

I will say unicornherds' advice about practicing and writing things down is good, if you'd rather talk to them about it first.
elaminator: (Tiger & Bunny: Barnaby)

Re: /is being used

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-10-09 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay! Didn't mean to sound rude, btw. I do appreciate any answer!

They live in another state now, but we were childhood friends which makes letting go a bit harder. Especially since I know they don't have many friends either, and are going through some tough stuff right now.

Usually when I stop being friends with someone, we just drift apart. Don't see each other often anymore, and the calls or emails start coming more infrequently until they stop altogether. So it's usually a mutual thing that doesn't cause me a lot of grief, but this...I'm not good with confronting things like this. I've tried your method in the past with someone who was overstepping some boundaries, but I still feel guilty about it, so...I'd rather not do it again.

Anyway, TL;DR, thanks for the reply! Might go with what unicornherds said.
caecilia: (snow girl kiss)

Re: /is being used

[personal profile] caecilia 2012-10-09 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
No, I'm sorry, it was kind of a lousy answer.
elaminator: (The Authority: Jenny Sparks - Game Over)

Re: /is being used

[personal profile] elaminator 2012-10-09 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
Shhhh. Shhhhhhh. *pets hair*