[ SECRET POST #2106 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2106 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

i don't identify as asexual, but my libido has functionally evaporated due to the meds i'm on

but, i still enjoy doing sexual things for my partner because it's pleasing to me to please her, just not in a way that is strictly.. idk what you'd call it. traditionally sexual? it's intimate, but i'm not getting off or getting an orgasm.

there are a lot of not-traditionally-sexual ways to be intimate. ie: a lot of bdsm practices. take for instance, masochism. people generally assume masochists get off of pain itself, or feel it as pleasure 'instead' of pain or something. that might be true sometimes, but in other cases it's more about the experience of being struck/whipped/branded/whatever, entrusting oneself to the dominant, being that vulnerable, etc. i would say two kinky people engaging in spanking or whatever might be sexual without any genitals being fiddled with or anyone being hard/wet/what-have-you.

i agree that there are a lot of uncomfortable implications about a asexual partner just 'resigning themselves' to rolling over and taking it from their sexual partner, but i err on the side of assuming agency in adults