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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-08 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2106 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2106 ⌋

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Re: Sexuality without the labels.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-09 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
I find both some men and some women nice-looking. Masturbation involves thinking about either men or women, but more often women. I am more attracted to female secondary sexual characteristics than to female genitals, though. I think I find women attractive more frequently, but have only ever pursued relationships with men, for the following reasons.

Regardless of how physically nice-looking I find a person, I can't have sex with them unless there's a strong romantic attraction, because I need the romantic attraction to get past the squick factor that exists for me regarding touching another person's mouth, genitals, or similar bits. I'm kind of germophobic, and won't even share a drinking glass with a close friend. I need romantic feelings even to be willing to kiss someone, because otherwise that's someone's tongue and what is it doing in my mouth and ew. And as far as I can tell, I am exclusively romantically attracted to men. Thus, I have only ever had sexual contact with men, and that seems unlikely to change in the future.

I enjoy sex, once the squick has been rendered irrelevant by romantic attraction, and I have a moderately high sex drive.

Sorry for the tl;dr.