case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-13 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2111 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2111 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14.


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________



16.


__________________________________________________



17.


__________________________________________________



18.


__________________________________________________



19.


__________________________________________________



20.


__________________________________________________



21.


__________________________________________________



22.


__________________________________________________















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 124 secrets from Secret Submission Post #301.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

When another character calls Howard on his shit he replies "I'm Jewish" and smiles and shrugs when he does it. I took it that the OP was referring to that.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

But that's really not what the OP said. They listed Jewish as a reason not to like the character. I just... I don't understand why this is something that should be excused?

If the OP meant that Howard uses religion as an excuse to be gross, then why didn't they just say that? That takes 7 words to say, gets the point across and doesn't force the OP and other fans of the show to defend antisemitism.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Because in the show those are the things that are listed as his faults by him and other characters. I don't see why they should have to elaborate on something that's well known in the fandom on the chance that someone who doesn't know the show comes along later and reads it. I know the show so I understand the dark humor they're using. You don't so you're offended. It's been explained to you and you still don't understand. Your problem, not the fans'.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Just...what?

I'm sorry but that makes absolutely no sense. Last time I checked this was a public forum, not a TBBT forum, so fuck you I have a right to be here.

Just because I don't like something doesn't mean I don't understand it. I watched the first 3 seasons of the show in its entirety before I gave up. I'm aware of the type of humour they use. It's pretty similar to the way they use Sheldon's obvious (tho undiagnosed or acknowledged) Aspergers as an in-show excuse for him being a dick. But you don't get to go onto a public forum and include 'has Aspergers' in a list of reasons to find the character repulsive and then reserve the right to not get called on it.

It doesn't take a lot of context to get your point across without being offensive. Stop. Making. Excuses.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
What is it you're looking for?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
An acknowledgement that what the OP said was offensive?

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
You got that. If you're looking for the OP to do it, abusing the other anons probably isn't going to make that happen.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I'm pretty sure I never got that. I got a whole lot of defensiveness and excuses and offers of ways to differently interpret the initial post.

And really, I'm abusing anons now? I'm pretty sure I was being pretty fucking polite back there (even complimentary) until that one anon said I essentially had no right to be offended or even enter the discussion.

If those anons had acknowledged it was a shitty post by the OP then it would have been over, but instead, this whole thread became even more angering because they were defending antisemitism while saying that there is no reason for someone to be offended by it.

What the fuck is even going on here.