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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-16 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2114 ]


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Re: Punishing kids (trigger warning)

(Anonymous) 2012-10-17 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Personally I feel like people have to tailor discipline to the kid. Some kids do bad with certain things, certain things help.

Exactly. This is why I'm eyebrowing all the "OMG HITTING KIDS IS SO BAD PARENTS SHOULD NEVER EVER CAUSE PAIN TO THEIR KIDS" comments. Instead, let's talk about why corporal punishment is used and how effective alternative disciplinary methods are. I bet most the time corporal punishment is used is because the parents don't know any other disciplinary methods. In the mean time, if nothing except getting a good belt stops my kid from stealing, then you bet I'm going to belt my kid while we find out why my kid wants to steal and work on the underlying cause.

Re: Punishing kids (trigger warning)

(Anonymous) 2012-10-17 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I also like how people are implying that the parents who did corporal punishment are also omg bad and traumatizing children.

I mean, I really don't think it should be the first resort,or even the second and should never be done very hard, but if it works for the kid then it works.

Personally I didn't mind how I only got spanked when my step-brother was forced to clean a toilet once for stealing later on...