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fandomsecrets2012-10-17 06:42 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-10-17 06:42 pm
[ SECRET POST #2115 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2115 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Elementary]
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[To Aru Majutsu no Index]
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[Ghostbusters 2]
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[One Piece]
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[Teen Wolf]
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[Big Time Rush]
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[Sherlock]
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[Pitch Perfect]
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[Blue Exorcist & Supernatural]
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[Homestuck]
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[Rose Byrne]
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[khaos komix]
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[Once Upon a Time]
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[The White Buffalo]
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[Teen Wolf]
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[Dawn of the Dead]
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[CSI: Miami]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #302.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-18 03:03 am (UTC)(link)I think the operative phrase is "feel pressure." I would say that my partner is my lover and my best friend simply because that's how our actual relationship has progressed, and because that's how I honestly perceive him. Neither of us feels like we have to be either of those things; we just are. As for the "drill sergeant" and "family" bit, we are only drill sergeants for one another when we're specifically asked to be, and family encompasses far more than just ourselves.
Whenever you feel like you have to be something to someone, it's not a good situation. In my experience, when a relationship is healthy and mutually beneficial (whether it's traditionally monogamous or something else), one's role in it feels completely natural.