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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2012-10-19 06:53 pm
[ SECRET POST #2117 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2117 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Slenderman/Cthulu]
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07. http://i.imgur.com/AAVIZ.jpg
[Bo Sinclair / House of Wax (2005); image contains possibly-triggery scars, no self-harm stuff in the text though]
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[Wil Wheaton]
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[Guardians of the Galaxy]
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[The King of Fighters: KYO manga and game]
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14. [SPOILERS for Star Trek Voyager: The Eternal Tide]

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15. [SPOILERS for Damages]

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16. [SPOILERS for Frankenweenie]

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17. [SPOILERS for Big Brother 14]

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18. [SPOILERS for Resident Evil 6]

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19. [WARNING for suicide]

[The Walking Dead]
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20. [WARNING for incest]

[A Night at the Roxbury]
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21. [WARNING for child abuse]

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Re: THIS
(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 08:29 pm (UTC)(link)Treating both cases equally is impossible because their motivations are completely different.
It's like calling a black person out on shouting "black power" just because white people get called out when shouting "white power".
This kind of "equality" belongs into MRA territory.
But of course I agree on everything that was said in this thread about women randomly declaring an ENTIRE FANDOM to be their "safe space". That's plain unfair and also kind of childish.
Re: THIS
(Anonymous) 2012-10-20 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)Telling a woman she should be raped, or a man that he can't take part in a fanfiction forum, are both transgressions against people enjoying themselves. Sure, the magnitude of "you should be raped" is a hell of a lot greater than "you can't be here. Go away. This is OUR sandbox". Not denying that. However, both things hurt someone. One by threatening safety, the worse of the two, and one by saying someone doesn't have the right to have fun even if they're not actually misbehaving (well, actually BOTH circumstances are doing that). What the people who defend this behavior from women are basically saying is "Well, men treat you like crap. Therefore it's ok for you to treat COMPLETELY DIFFERENT men like crap back"
Fandom is not real world, but if the magnitudes were the same I would see it as basically saying to women that because men pay them worse and harass them at work, it would be ok for them to hold up a convenience store owned by a man they've never met.