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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-20 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2118 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2118 ⌋

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Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

(Anonymous) 2012-10-21 02:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I've heard of guys doing this, not because they exotify the women, but because they want a woman who's part of culture that allows him to be the breadwinner. It's not just Asia.

Of course that goes back to OPs post about submissive women. It's true in some cases. But not because they want to abuse the woman but because they value "traditional" marriage and think no woman in the US likes it anymore.

Now I know people will say it's sexist and I'm sure it is in a way, but I kinda get it since I WANT that kinda of life too but in the feminist view of the US I'm not expected to get it. Everyone should work FOR EQUALITY. House work and Children ARE work. (Plus I'm an artist so I make money on the side.) Pressuring me by saying I have to work or I'm a detriment to women is bullshit. It's a choice. One that was discussed before I even moved in with my significant other.

So I do feel bad for a guy that thinks the only way he can get this is to leave the country.

Of course if there are just there for Asian hotties well that's creepy but we all have our likes. At least they announced it so you can avoid them if that creeps you out.

yeahscience: ([4-5] facepalm)

Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

[personal profile] yeahscience 2012-10-21 02:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope. Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. This entire comment, nope.

And just to be clear, I'm not "nope"ing the idea that housework and childraising can be valid work. But I think you already know that being all "those feminists told me it's not!!" is a huge strawman.
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Re: another of my (white) friends has started dating an asian

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-10-21 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
It happens though. The internet makes straw-men of us all sooner or later.